Day 18: The Perfect Person

There is one very important thing that you learn when you see the ugly side of a person: there is no such thing as the Perfect Person. No matter how kind or how thoughtful or how loyal a person is, there will come a time that he/she will disappoint you–hurt you. And then you will see his/her ugliness. No matter how beautiful we are as individuals living cohesively on earth, there is ugly in each and everyone of us–a blip in the manufacturing. And I have been searching for that Perfect Person all my life. That one person who will be my shelter, my guide, and my sanity. The person who is perfect and in every way and who I can trust because I know that they are always right. I have searched for this person in my parents, teachers, friends, mentors, and copious amounts of people. And I always believed that I would one day find and cling to that perfect human. But I loss faith in that person because he/she cannot fit the mold of that Perfect Person. And up until today, I was still waiting to find that one person I could look to for that one quality that I realize doesn't exist in the human race–perfection. I realized that we are beings filled with the same about of love as we have hate, the same amount of happiness that we have anger, the same amount of beauty that we have ugly. And so, no one can possess that quality, "perfection". It's not possible. No matter how much you believe in someone, no matter how kind or thoughtful or loyal, they are not perfect and not a living soul alive can be right all the time. We are imperfect machines–drugs designed to cure but carrying with us undesired side effects. There is no such thing as the perfect person. Today wen I realized this, it scared me. It instantly made me feel as though I had lost all trust in people–in humanity. But ultimately, it helped me grow up a bit. In life, people are just people; they're not meant to be our shelter, our guide, and our sanity all at the same time. They can, however, be those things separately. Your mom can be your shelter, your father your guide, you friends your sanity. Take the good that these imperfect beings have given you and perhaps you will feel what it feels like to know perfection. As perfection is not about a single being but rather perfection is recognizing the existence of the ugly, but choosing to only see the beauty. 

 Stay UnNaked

My Little Flower Patch

UnNaked t-shirt, Lucky Brand jeans, Tan belt 

Today's outfit featured my very own one-of-a-kind UnNaked t-shirt. It is the one that I made the night before Easter Sunday. I used only my leftover egg dye to tie-dye the shirt in light green, blue, and purple. I wore the shirt today in this outfit to promote my blog. I am looking forward to creating more UnNaked t-shirts and perhaps other items as well. I wore my UnNaked shirt with worn blue jeans and a thick tan belt. I wore feather sandals on bottom. The style of today's outfit was sort a casual-hippie style. Nothing too elaborate, yet still fun. 

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